Things You Should Never Do Or Say To Your Boyfriend

#1 Don’t Doubt His Financial Status

Boys like their toys. And hey, the minimum wage is on the rise.

#2 Don't Make Things Uncomfortable

This is a dangerous question for him. The average man thinks about sex every 3 seconds, so they say. So yes, he probably thinks someone he sees is 'pretty' or 'hot'. But he is with you. Don't be insecure, it's a turn off.

#4 Never Bad Mouth Or Gossip About His Family

He may talk down on his siblings or even his momma, but don't you ever say anything bad about them. Unless, of course, you want to push him away.

#5 Don't Keep Fishing For Compliments

"Honey, does this dress make me look fat?" We've heard it before, there is NO correct answer, and if you really want the truth instead of a compliment, the answer may be "No, your fat makes you look fat!" He already loves you for who you are, don't ruin it.

#6 Never Lie to Your Boyfriend If You Truly Love Him

Oh what a tangled web we weave when we practice to deceive. You all know this stuff, it was covered in 'How To Be A Human 101.' Lies and dishonesty only lead to trouble. If you get caught lying over something silly, he may not trust you when the time comes that he needs to. Don't think that it's just one little white lie, because they snowball, and they might get big enough to roll him right out of your untruthful life.

#7 Stop Riding His Ass Over Little Things

You want to lose a guy fast? Keep badgering him about stupid things. Guys hate to be nagged. If he doesn't text you right back, it doesn't mean he is out looking for someone else, or ignoring you. It just means he's tired or busy watching the game and you'll get a text when he's ready.

#8 Never Try To Keep Your Options Open

He won't be happy to hear this news.. If you're on any dating sites and you have found a guy you like, it's a little painful for him to find out you are still putting yourself out there, maybe fishing for someone better. If he's not the one, cut the cord quickly. Guys don't like that game playing any more than girls do. You all say "I wish I could find a guy just like you" but 'HELLO! I'm just like me, and I'm right here!'

#9 Too Much Laughing Irritates Guys

Laughing is awesome, but only if you both are having a real knee slapping time TOGETHER. Men hate it when you fake laugh or hang on their every word and laugh at everything they say. Unless you're dating Chris Rock, knock that shit off!

#10 He’ll Get Tired Very Soon If You Don’t Stop Complaining About Everything

How can he hear you when you won't shut up? As judge Judy would say, "Put your listening ears on." Listen to your partner and stop talking for a few minutes. If you're complaining about every little thing it just seems like a whole lot of drama, and as they say, "save the drama for your mamma!"

#11 Don't Let Him Know You Doubt His Feelings

Here's the thing.. guys don't know. If things are going smoothly, then everything is amazing to them. If you keep doubting their feelings then they start to doubt themselves, and worse, you.

#12 Never Ever Compare Him To Your Old Boyfriend

Nothing gives a guy low self esteem like knowing that you are always comparing them to someone you used to love. Girl, if you EX was so great then why aren't you still with him? Is it you?

#13 Don't Be Overly Clingy

Every guy likes to hold his girl close, and enjoys a warm hug, but don't overdue it. Guys like to feel loose and carefree, and not restrained by someone hanging all over them. A lot of guys come down with GET THE HELL OFF OF ME FOR A MINUTE syndrome. And once they get it, they feel they need a break to clear up their allergy.

#14 Don’t Say This If Your Current Relationship Means Something to You

Just like always comparing him to your ex, trying to make him more like your ex is something that spells DISASTER. He is not the other guy, never will be. You can't change him, and if he needs changing then maybe he isn't for you. Go back with your ex!

#3 Don't Plan Too Far Into The Future

This will scare him away faster than a cockroach when the lights come on.

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