Things You Wouldn’t Expect That Turn Women On

#1 Attraction Is Weird

There is no scientific way to explain just what might tune somebody on or make them attracted to the opposite sex. However, a conducted survey of 21-30 year old women and research from a few different studies, have found a few weird things that can catch a woman's eye. There is just no way of telling what that hot girl across the bar is into, but here are a few of the things, as weird as they seem, that women say they are attracted to in a man.

#2 Men Who Smell Nice

Put down the Axe body spray and slowly move away from the can. Women hate guys who smell like perfume or who have doused themselves in cologne. They also are not into guys who stink. What they do like is the natural odor of a man. We're talking about pheromones (yes, SCIENCE). Women are very sensitive to pheromones and the right smell can get a girl interested before she even knows why. Androstenol is the pheromone released by fresh sweat and women are very attracted to this smell.

#3 Nice Facial Hair

Heavy stubble and full beards were rated as more attractive on a man when seen only rarely. Which means, a crowd of bearded men will not turn a woman on, but one in the crowd with a nicely trimmed, or short five o'clock shadow will stand out because it's different. Some women just go crazy for facial hair, but it must be kept neat and clean. One woman interviewed said, "Girls take hours to get ready to go out, good facial hair tells you that a guy took a second to think about how he looked for the night, too."

#4 Healthy Teeth and Big Smiles

Bad teeth or no teeth normally is a sign that the man has other nasty habits as bad as not keeping his dental hygiene up. One of the quickest ways to reel a woman in is by flashing her a genuine, sparkling smile! Forget trying to trick her by coming off as mysterious, brooding, or aloof: just smile at her! It's a fact: a bright smile makes other people want to smile, and a happy woman is a woman that's more likely to continue conversing with you. You're connected.

#5 Wide, Bright Eyes

They say the eyes are the window to the soul. Women love gazing into a bright st of attentive eyes. Men frequently try to work the "smolder:" that half-closed stare that makes you look mysterious and dangerous? Yeah, don't do that. Wide open eyes make men appear more vulnerable, and that's not a bad thing! It makes women feel like they can trust you and your intentions. Make sure you're not tired or your eyes are not bloodshot, and keep gazing right back at her with those bright eyes.

#6 Stylish Bags

Yeah, I don't get it either. Apparently the bag you carry, which is the style now, says a lot about you and your position in the food chain. A stylish bag can say a lot about a man. A modern executive briefcase says he's business oriented and ambitious. A nice messenger bag says he's an academe and lives a busy lifestyle. Your old, worn down backpack from college says you're cheap and lazy. Consider what you want to communicate with your bag and get one that looks nice! It's a bit of an investment, but it won't go unnoticed.

#7 Men Who Talk About Their Passions

women want to know what you're passionate about. Don't censor your excitement, let it out! It can be nerve-racking being honest with a woman about things you've invested your heart and soul in, but that's what'll keep her interested in talking to you. Don't try to censor your feelings or emotions, and don't try to think ahead as to what the next response should be. Just be honest, open, and talk freely, and she'll be all ears.

#8 Strong, Healthy Hands

Women want men that are tough but tender, rugged but sensuous, adventurous but sensible, and they can tell all that from the look and feel of your hands. Let's be real.. women like a guy with strong masculine hands. Your hands tell how you live your life. If they're dry and cracked, you'll look like someone who makes a living doing hard-labor and has no time or care for self-maintenance.

#9 Well Groomed Eyebrows

Men are weirdly embarrassed about grooming their eyebrows. You trim your beard, you trim your hair, why not trim your eyebrows? You need to. Big, bushy eyebrows or eyebrows that have a tendency to grow all the way across your face are less than attractive. Women get their eyebrows done all the time, just as they get their hair cut; it's not an issue of vanity, it's keeping yourself looking trim and clean.

#10 Healthy Hair

Women like all different kinds of hair: there is no winning style that will attract women. However, clean hair is always sexy. Just like a man enjoys seeing a woman with healthy beautiful hair, a woman enjoys seeing that on a man as well. Some like bald heads, but that's okay, as long as the scalp is healthy looking. Invest in a good shampoo and conditioner and keep your hair strong and always styled. Women hate men with mousse and products in their hair. They love running their fingers through it, so take care of the hair.

#11 Eye Contact

Put that damn cell phone down and look! Eyes are the windows to the soul: if you actually take the time to look into her eyes for longer than a few seconds, you might both feel something deeper than sexual attraction. Eye contact with a woman shows that you're not afraid to be vulnerable with her; trusting someone enough to be vulnerable with them is one of the sexiest things a person can do in a relationship. Don't be afraid to tell her, just through eye contact, that you want to get to know her. She might say it back.

#12 Being Awkward

Women hate men who try too hard in social situations. It's boring. When a guy isn't afraid to show that he's socially awkward and is just trying to do the best he can, it makes women feel like they can let their guard down; maybe with this guy, it doesn't have to be a game or a power struggle. Maybe, with this guy, everyone can be unashamedly themselves.

#13 Guys Who Read

Smart is sexy. Women love that. Seriously, take your book with you on the bus or on the subway, read for a while, then look up: there will be a woman checking you out. Same for at the bar! If it's a slow night, or you're waiting for your friends to get there, bring your book and do some reading while you sip your drink. When you look up, a woman will be looking at you, wondering what you're reading and how intellectual your conversations could be.

#14 Artistic Men

Artistic men are a woman's dream. If you have some sort of passion about the arts, or are creative yourself, you're in like flynn. It shows women you have a soft, sensitive, and empathetic side. It shows that you can listen to a problem or argument and see past the surface level. Artists are trained to develop a deeper perspective about all that they perceive. It expresses that you're cultured, and you enjoy experiencing culture. And what woman wouldn't want that?

#15 The Color Red

Women associate the color red with power. You can trace the colors roots in power back to ancient times, when ancient Romans, emperors, and even tribal leaders were the only figures permitted to wear red garments. Even today, red is a color associated with confidence and high status: it's why the carpet the celebrities walk on is red. But here's the catch.. don't over do it. Too much is likely to turn her off than turn her on. Get a red car, maybe a red shirt, or a tie, paint a wall red, that's enough. A little goes a long way and when it works, it shows the woman you mean business.

#16 Taking A Shirt Off In Public

This is a sure way to catch a woman. For some reason they enjoy watching a man disrobe in a public setting and showing off his sculpted abs and arms. Just as men enjoy seeing named women, the ladies love to see a shirt being torn off. If the man is working outside or doing chores and gets too warm, all eyes will be gazed on him as he sheds that shirt. Don't get the impression that just anyone can pull this off.. they can't. Studies show women only get turned on by guys without shirts that have tight, firm, and toned bodies. No beer bellies allowed.

#17 Rolled Up Sleeves

It sounds silly, but it's true. Rolled up sleeves denote something: they show you're a man that has work to do, and you're not afraid to do it; you get the job done, but you have a good time while doing it; you're not afraid to get your hands dirty. There's something very sexy about a man with rolled up sleeves! We are talking neatly rolled up sleeves, and not just bunched up sleeves or crumpled cuffs.. that looks cheap. A nicely rolled sleeve shows off your biceps, reveals strong forearms, and expresses a relaxing informality about the evening.

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