TikToker Lanthane Radium brought us a history lesson about the stigmatization of gossiping and how it was used as a propaganda tool to control the conversations women were having.
In a sort of mini video essay, she starts by pointing out misogynistic themes when it comes to talking about 'gossiping'.
What prompted her to make these videos was this statue of three cute little ladies gossiping at a bench.
The statue is officially called 'Gosippers'.
She went into the history of the name and it turns out the word 'gossip' actually meant 'close female friends'.
She pointed out that women used to hold positions of power in societies back in the day.
Their strong sense of community threatened men who then attempted to dismantle it.
Thus came this horrific contraption that physically silenced them.
The mask straight out of a Saw movie would tear their tongues out if they spoke.
She also pointed out that groups of women that would congregate were targets of the witch trials and women were told to turn on one another to safeguard themselves.
She pointed out that the thought that women hate each other was part of this propaganda.
Simplifying the concept to backbiting over time made it seem like a less sinister version of the face traps and the silencing became more psychological and social.
Gossiping, she reiterated was originally just women talking to one another.
She then brought the facts in part 2 where science has revealed that gossiping is in fact good for you.
One article revealed that only 3-4% of gossip is actually mean spirited or malicious.
and that gossiping makes you more understanding of the human condition
and this clarity can lead to self improvement.
and an increase in self-esteem
Gossiping was originally just a tool for survival.
The science also revealed that while women gossiped more, the content of their conversations was rarely negative.
She ends the post with the message to go on and gossip. Take this as a sign to call up your girls and plan that brunch you've been waiting to schedule.
You can watch the two videos here
