Woman Shares Four Things She Refuses To Do For Her Husband And People Call It A ‘Nightmare’

A woman has shared the four things she refuses to do for her husband, and people online think her approach sounds like a 'nightmare'.

Marriage is often viewed as a partnership, with both partners contributing to make things work smoothly. If one person in a marriage is always thinking solo, it can be tough for the relationship to thrive.

Usually, couples figure out their own way of dividing up household chores, with each person taking on certain responsibilities.

However, this particular woman has gone viral after explaining that there are four specific tasks she has absolutely no intention of doing for her husband.

Known as Jessy on TikTok, she detailed her reasons behind each of the things she chooses not to do for him.

Cooking

For many families, sharing a meal is one of the few times everyone comes together for some quality conversation and a nice, hearty meal.

But unless Jessy’s husband has timed it perfectly, it’s doubtful this happens often in their home.

"I do not cook for my husband, only my children. My husband will be making his own breakfast, lunch and dinner," Jessy explained.

Bills

How couples handle paying and splitting bills is up to them; every family manages finances in their own way.

But judging by Jessy’s approach, a lot of people online feel there might not be much of a "team effort" here.

"I do not help him pay any bills, so if he is short on the rent or utilities, it is not my problem I will not be helping him out," she stated.

"His job is to provide for his family. I am not financially contributing to any of the bills."

Laundry

Laundry is another area where Jessy draws the line, and this includes not just the washing itself but all the tasks that follow afterward.

She explained: "I do not do his laundry. I have my own laundry and my children's laundry to do, so he can do his own. I will not help him put it away, I won't help him fold - that's his responsibility."

Jessy will not help with the laundry TikTok/@xo.jessyy

Topping up on the essentials

It appears Jessy's husband has to keep track of his own essentials, as he is responsible for buying his own soap and shampoo.

"He is responsible for replacing any of his essentials like soap and shampoo," she stated.

"Even if I am at the store, I will not be replacing it for him."

Jessy added: "If he needs new underwear or socks, that's for him to do."