To The Woman Who Is Deeply In Love With The Wrong Guy!
By
Deepak Mamgain in
Life Style
On 27th January 2017
A few months into what was already a doomed relationship, I wrote what I considered to be the most romantic, heartfelt thought to the first man I had ever loved. In between showering him with the usual encomiums about his gorgeous blue eyes and sweet smile, I told him, “I will always be thankful that I met and fell in love with you.”
Another few months later, we were already calling it quits, and even though I spent months recovering from being rocked to my core by a relationship that was both incredible and incredibly wrong for me, I still believe those words I wrote him to be true.
#1
Hey there,
While writing this to you, I wasn’t even sure whether I should or not, because you seem to be living in a world far away from the reality and it’s hard to make people understand anything once they are there. Isn’t it?
I am sure even your friends have given up on you by now because you are too stubborn to follow a path where all you are getting is 'pain'. Who does that and why? There are a million guys in this world who will do anything for a woman like you, but here you are, stuck with a man who doesn’t treat you well.
#2
First of all, if that man isn’t treating you well, he doesn’t deserve to be called a man. Because a real man knows how to value someone’s sentiments and how to respect a woman who is in love with him.
A real man will never hurt your feelings and won’t do anything that will bring even a single drop of tear in your eyes. If that person is giving so much grief and pain to your heart, then he surely doesn’t deserve to be called a man.
#3
He is someone who is sticking to you because he needs an option in his life and he knows that you are so madly in love that you will do anything to be with him no matter what.
Sacrificing a few things for love is still something that can be understood, but compromising your self-respect? Really? It is not even an option that comes along with love. You are two individuals who are in a relationship that is meant to fill life with happiness and not pain. So, why are you taking it at all?
#4
Trust me, if you think that you will not find someone better than him out there, you’re mistaken. There’s always someone who is perfect for you and is waiting for you to get out of the mess that you’re already in.
The way that guy treats you is not what you deserve. You deserve all the happiness in this world along with love that enlightens your heart and soul. So, it’s time for you to stop being stubborn and let that guy go away from your life. Because it’s finally time to give life another chance.
From,
A well - wisher!
