True Sign's That He's "Just Not That Into You"

#1 He's Just Not That Into You

If you have dated a guy on a regular basis for several months now and suddenly there are some negative changes on his behavior and responses to

you. There is a possibility that the guy is no longer interested on

you. Here are some of the few signs you can check on your relationship with him:

#2 He's Self Absorbed

He is self-involved and absorbed only with him. He is physically present but you know that his mind is somewhere else during your date. He begins taking pride in his own appearance more than usual.

#3 Calling And Texting

The great downfall of relationships in today's society. He is constantly on his phone with people you don't know, or texting them, but when you text him, he takes forever to responds, and it's a one word reply. He's not into you!

#4 He is Always Late Or Never Shows Up As Promised

They keep blaming timing, the no 5 bus, work, their ex, their commitment issues, or whatever the excuse du jour is, for why they can't be or do something. In fact, they keep making excuses. Sometimes he never shows up or doesn't even bother calling to say he'll be late.

#5 He's A Cheater

He talks about other women and shows an overt interest. He stays close or initiates contact with an ex. A man who is interested in you will be paying attention to you. If you are seeing some of the signs above, you

better get yourself ready for a possible break up. Chances are he is seeing somebody else besides you, or worse yet, he is married!

#6 They Seem Controlling

They are controlling, manipulative, jealous and possessive. These are not signs that they're actually interested in you these are signs that they want to control you. You are always the reason they are upset.

#7 You Are A Dirty Little Secret

They're keeping you a secret. You never get to meet any of his friends, family, co-workers, or even his pet. It's as if he doesn't want anyone to know he is dating you.

#8 We Have A Runner!

They disappear for periods of time. You never seem to know his whereabouts or what his plans are, because he is hard to locate and pin down. Too many broken dates and promises is not a good sign of a guy who is truly interested. He sprints as fast as he can away after your dates.

#9 He Only Wants SEX

You are treated like an option.. a one night booty call. They tend to be around/call you up when they want something. It might be money, attention, an ego stroke, sex, an armchair psychologist, but if you think back to all the times when you've heard from them, you may notice that it was a preamble to something. If sex is the only thing you have in common, it's not going to work out.

#10 He Is Still Married Or In A Relationship

They don't break up with their wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend. But they still expect to be with you. Hell, they seem to think you have all the time in the frickin' world to be waiting around for them. They don't get that divorce finalized that you talked about. In fact, they may even pretend they've started proceedings! Yet, his constant contact with his other woman is non stop and shouldn't concern you.

#11 He Has No Interest In Long Term Plans

He does not bring up the future. Even if you are not planning for a wedding and

children, he will not plan for your next vacation or long weekend. Talking about the future is a no go subject, and you're way out of line when you bring up plans for even the next date... let alone a long term relationship.

#12 Boy Night Out Comes First

You take a back seat, and are only an afterthought. His night on the town with his bro's is more important than a romantic evening with you. You are never included in any of the functions he plans on for prime time hours, but after the bars close you may get a booty call.

#13 You Are Doubting His Interests

You already have that woman's intuition... but you try to keep hanging on, hoping you are wrong. Maybe you sense he might be gay or attracted to the same sex. One thing is for sure, is he is not that into you, and he does seem to enjoy his Broadway musicals.

#14 You Are In The Friend Zone

You start hanging out like friends. You may even be friends with benefits. But after that flame grows dim, you know that he is only using your for one thing. He stops giving you compliments and stop being nice to you.

#15 He Only Wants A Physical Relationship

We can't stress this one enough...If the only time he's available is after midnight and only presses you for a physical relationship, this is a major indicator that he's bad news. A man who's into you doesn't want to just get to know your body, he wants to get to know your mind and your spirit.

#16 He Tries To Change You

If he's nit picky or critical about the things most men value in a womanyour body, your personality, even your dreams, this is a sign that he's more focused on what he believes is wrong with you, not what makes you beautiful. Unless he's bringing something up to encourage and lift you, he's not the one for you.

#17

Some people overestimate their interest, then realize that they're not as interested as they thought, and either think they might rediscover that interest again (probably not), or that again, you're good to pass time with. Of course if something better comes along, they'll be out of there. Don't sell yourself short.. they become EX's for a good reason.