Women are sensitive and posses fragile emotional levels. What many men consider to be a joke may lead women to blasting expressions. Especially when they are angry or depressed, men need to be cautious to talk to them or even approach them. There are certain things a man should never tell a woman during the fight. What comes out so spontaneously may turn explosive at such instances.
What You Shouldn't Do While Arguing With A Women !
#1 Never Use The Words "Relax" "Calm Down" Or "Are You Mad"
Whenever you use these words, you are reminding her that she is out of mood or out of control, while she thinks that she is really serious on what she is trying to prove. Also you are making her feel that she is abnormal. Anything that puts the women down during the fight will be resisted with utmost sense of defense.
#2 Never Pretend Like You Are Not Paying Attention
Most of the men, after getting fed up with the argument, stop listening to their women. It is then, the wives consider that you least care about her and that hurts her more. Instead, make sure that you are active to her arguments, by making gestures, showing body language.
#3 You Shouldn't Apologize Again And Again During Argument
Do not admit all the mistakes at the first instance, which you may think my put an end to the issue. But the woman may feast on your sentiments and put you down to the soil. Try to defend your arguments in the mildest possible way.
When you apologize number of times, the woman jumps into conclusion, that she is on the right track. Silence or balanced arguments would work well.
#4 You Shouldn't Remind Her Past Relationship
The reason because, the women feel that you are using it as a trick to humiliate her, by remembering past life. Never ever mention about any of her ex-relationships, during fight. Even if she takes out your issues about your ex-girlfriends, you still maintain tight-lipped on her past relationships.
Fights should not be the stage, to impose your ideas, thoughts, demands and desires on other person. They are uncontrolled moments, which if, not dealt in mature way, would impact your entire life.
