Woman Horrified After Finding Out Why Men Won’t Date Her

By Sughra Hafeez in Life Style On 30th October 2017
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The 39-year-old ‘plus-size’ blogger never found it hard to get dates.

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But after a weight-loss journey which saw Kelly lose 10 stone and drop down to a healthy 13-stone, the Australian was dismayed to discover fewer men approached her.

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She discovered a shocking truth about how men see plus-sized women when it comes to dating.

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Kelly’s friend told her that from his experience, “bigger women are seen as easy…people are more confident hollering at fat chicks.”

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Kelly is writing a piece about her dating experience and how her weight loss changed her mindset on finding love.

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Writing in MammaMia, Kelly explained:

An unexpected side effect of extreme weight loss is that it’s harder to get dates. I know! You’d think it would be the opposite, right?

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After losing 67kg I was half expecting a romantic comedy montage-style life of never-ending meet-cutes with dates scheduled back-to-back all weekend long – but nope. It’s been crickets.

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When I was 152 kg, I got asked out all the time. Seriously. All-the-damn-time… Now I’m 84 kg and size 18 (still fabulously fat) but there’s no magical mic drop moment. Instead, I’m left tapping the mic asking, ‘Is this thing on?’

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Kelly has embarked on a challenge – the aptly named 50 Fat Dates, which she documents in a candidly hilarious podcast – to go on 50 dates ‘as a fat girl’.

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She continued to narrate:

You think fat chicks are easy? Go ahead and try to persuade a big girl you’re really into her and see how that works out for you. Good luck with that.

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Truly pursuing a fat chick isn’t a sprint, it’s a freaking marathon!

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Kelly surely learned the reality on dating the hard way.

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She’s now joined the female-led dating app, Bumble.

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Kelly joins the ranks of so-called plus-sized models, both male and female in smashing stereotypes on fleshy forms.