We always had the notion that sexier women are more likely to find partners without putting in so much effort compared to plus sized ladies. However, a recent revelation tells otherwise, but men’s reason in choosing “bigger women” to ask on a date might change your perception on relationships forever.
Woman Horrified After Finding Out Why Men Won’t Date Her
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The 39-year-old ‘plus-size’ blogger never found it hard to get dates.
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But after a weight-loss journey which saw Kelly lose 10 stone and drop down to a healthy 13-stone, the Australian was dismayed to discover fewer men approached her.
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She discovered a shocking truth about how men see plus-sized women when it comes to dating.
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Kelly’s friend told her that from his experience, “bigger women are seen as easy…people are more confident hollering at fat chicks.”
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Kelly is writing a piece about her dating experience and how her weight loss changed her mindset on finding love.
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Writing in MammaMia, Kelly explained:
An unexpected side effect of extreme weight loss is that it’s harder to get dates. I know! You’d think it would be the opposite, right?
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After losing 67kg I was half expecting a romantic comedy montage-style life of never-ending meet-cutes with dates scheduled back-to-back all weekend long – but nope. It’s been crickets.
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When I was 152 kg, I got asked out all the time. Seriously. All-the-damn-time… Now I’m 84 kg and size 18 (still fabulously fat) but there’s no magical mic drop moment. Instead, I’m left tapping the mic asking, ‘Is this thing on?’
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Kelly has embarked on a challenge – the aptly named 50 Fat Dates, which she documents in a candidly hilarious podcast – to go on 50 dates ‘as a fat girl’.
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She continued to narrate:
You think fat chicks are easy? Go ahead and try to persuade a big girl you’re really into her and see how that works out for you. Good luck with that.
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Truly pursuing a fat chick isn’t a sprint, it’s a freaking marathon!
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Kelly surely learned the reality on dating the hard way.
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She’s now joined the female-led dating app, Bumble.
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Kelly joins the ranks of so-called plus-sized models, both male and female in smashing stereotypes on fleshy forms.
