Woman Kicks Out Gay Brother Disowned By Parents For Telling Her Fiancé She Cheated 9 Years Ago

A woman asked on Reddit if she was an A-Hole for kicking out her brother as he had ruined her relationship.

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Connor invited his buddies over to the house for drinks and games to celebrate his 19th birthday after being kicked out of the house at the age of 16 after their parents learned he was gay.

OP and Hunter, the girl's fiancé, were about to leave when Connor invited them to stay and take part in the fun.

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OP reluctantly decided to stay

The phrase "Never Have I Ever cheated before" was used during a game of Never Have I Ever that the group was playing as the night went on.

When OP was a teenager, she cheated on her five-month boyfriend, which her brother was aware of.

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Connor called her out and insisted that she must answer.

Hunter had a pretty devastating experience with his past relationships, he was cheated on by his fiance which left him emotionally traumatized.

Hunter was pretty shocked at what Connor had just said. He gave her and her brother a quick look before leaving the room.

Hunter showed no attention to the OP's efforts to convince him that it was a typical teenage mistake. 

She was instantly dumped by him, leaving her sad and numb.

The following morning, she served her brother with an eviction notice since she believed he had ruined her life.

He begged OP to let him stay, insisting that he didn't intend to end their relationship, but she was unable to stand being around him.

Though many might consider the girl's response to be unreasonable, it's crucial to keep in mind that emotions are complex.

She thought her brother had betrayed her and was hurt, heartbroken, and angry.

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Even if it might have been a teenage mistake, the hurt was nevertheless recent.

From the outside, it's simple to pass judgment, but we don't fully understand the girl's relationship with her brother or the level of hurt she experienced at the time.

Few people supported her many few criticized her. Even more so, all of them were labeled A-Holes.

One said: “This 100%. fiance walked out and ended everything without a second thought over something you did 9 years ago to not him? You do not need him anyway then.”

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Another said: “This is spot-on analysis. I especially agree that her ex-fiance is the biggest asshole here. It's nuts that he broke off an engagement with OP because she cheated on another boyfriend when she was a teenager. He needs some therapy as well because that's not normal behavior.”

Third said: "I don't think her ex is mad about the cheating. I'm guessing she had told him she had never cheated and he realized she lied and is instead upset about that."

Fourth commented: "I have the suspicion that you are forgetting the most crucial detail that makes her TA, and far bigger than the fiancé. She obviously lied to him about something that is obviously a dealbreaker. Likely, he told her about his past, said cheaters are a no-no, and she lied her face off."

"Not sure how you factor a lie this big (by fiancé standards) out of the equation."

Fifth said: "Shed lied, though, right in front of her fiance, which makes the fiance's reaction apropos. If she fessed up and was open about it to him, then it'd be fine. But to undermine their trust right before getting married? That's asking for trouble."

Another said: "Don't you think that he's also hurt by the fact that he wasn't told about this for almost a decade, and had to find out from his fiancee's brother? The lie by omission may also factor into his anger."

Seventh commented: "Not just killing her relationship with her brother, kicking him out on short notice while she knows he doesn't have a relationship with his parents. That is multiple levels of fucked."