Woman Repeatedly Cheated On Husband Until He Agreed To Become A Swinger

A cheating wife says that she cheated on her husband multiple times before he agreed to swing with her. Krystina and Mark who have been married for 16 years have reached a new stage in their relationship.

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The pair, who have two children post about their sexual lives on TikTok where they discuss how they became swingers.

The 38-year-old mother says that their relationship today is stronger than ever and that their sex lives are far more exciting.

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She also revealed however that their unconventional lifestyle has resulted in the loss of friends and family members who tried to stage an intervention.

Krystina said, “I wasn’t worried about becoming a swinger because I had cheated on my husband and I knew I could have that sexual desire for another man but not want to be with him romantically.”

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“My husband was worried at the start but then he was like ‘oh my god this is crazy’ and it was nothing like he thought.

“We are now happier than ever and are more attracted to each other. We are no longer holding things in and if I want something in another man I don’t have to hold it in and feel guilty.

“It has taken the weight of the world off our shoulders.”

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The pair started dating in their early twenties when Krystina was dating another man and cheated on him to ultimately marry Mark.

The two now have a 15 year old daughter.

Krystina revealed that their relationship always had outside elements since the first time the two had sex was in a threesome with another woman.

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“I am very open about having a problem with monogamy and being with just one person and that’s how our relationship started.

“The first night we slept together we invited my best friend. We have been having threesomes with women our whole relationship.

“But I had a problem with having affairs because I would want other men too.”

She then approached her husband three years ago to communicate her need for an open and swinger relationship.

“Our life is so much more successful including our health and business and even our children are happier. It’s crazy how much our lives have changed for the good.”

While the backlash has been strong, their daughters have been supportive of their lifestyle and their public stance on it.

“I told my mum first that I was going to go on TikTok as a swinger and she already knew we were having threesomes and she was totally OK with it. But everyone minus her and my brother treated us differently.”

“People don’t understand that we are exactly the same people as before. People just don’t understand how we can share the one person we love more than anything in this world minus our children.

“But it’s because we love them so much that we want to share them with people. People judge what they can’t understand.”

Her 17 year old daughter was the first to find out when she overheard a phone call.

“She was like ‘now I know why we have all this pineapple stuff’! I told her I was sorry for not telling her but she said she had never seen us so happy and that we never argue any more. She also said now she knows what we’re up to when we’re gone overnight on the weekends.”

Krystina further added, “People look at us like we are these abnormal sex freaks but we should be accepted. Stop discriminating against swingers just for speaking out about our lives and trying to educate people.”

For those looking to get into swinging themselves, Krystina says, “My number one piece of advice is to keep having honest conversations with your spouse.

“Don’t be afraid to tell them anything because that’s the number one step. If you can’t tell them openly about your desires for another person then you’re not going to be able to be successful in the lifestyle.

“Tell them your feelings in a genuine way in a non-hurtful way and then the next step is to get educated rather than diving right in.”