When it comes to life, it can be pretty unexpected. Sometimes it throws us in a direction that we never wanted or expected, and sometimes it makes us question everything we know. Life may be complicated, but our actions have a direct effect on what path our life chooses to take. So, when we decide to get it on with a stranger, opt out of protection, and wind up pregnant, that’s totally our bad. Life can’t be blamed for this mess. Since nobody in this world is perfect, mistakes are bound to happen once in awhile. For these people, their mistakes resulted in much more than an STI. Their frisky business ended up with a child who nobody expected. While these stories don’t always end badly, some of them become tear-jerkers that would be better off taking place during prime time TV rather than in real life. While these confessions are very much part of someone’s reality, we can’t help but be drawn to the drama like an old episode of Jerry Springer. Their one-time hookups ended in a painful acceptance, but it probably won’t be nearly as hard to accept as their regret over not using protection.
Women Share How They Accidentally Ended Up With A Baby
Scarier Than A Spider In Your Shower
Okay, so let’s get one thing straight. This chick has one benefit that previous pregnancy confessions has not: a connection to the seed-wielder. She’s still doing her ex on the side, loves him, and their inability to keep their hands off of each other post-relationship resulted in a tiny human. The one thing that stands out from the rest of them is the fact that she actually knows the father, which is only going to benefit her in the future. Aside from the fact that their partnership could actually improve with the fact that the life they’re about to bring into the world is shared, there is – and has been – love between these two future parents. That’s a situation that, while unexpected, is probably the one you want after discovering you’re pregnant following a one night stand.
That’s Some Savage Scheming!
There are many women in this world who are independent in every way and who are not interested in settling down with just any man. However, they’re well aware of their biological clock, its countdown, and their inherent desire to have it all – even if the “all” part doesn’t include a life partner. She wants the child, but she doesn’t have the time to wait around for Mr. Right, so she’ll take matters into her own hands (or V). This woman has thrown a lifelong partnership, artificial insemination, and donors to the wind in favor of getting pregnant the good old fashion way – via unprotected bangin’! Her plan panned out and she got the results she wanted. What a go-getter! She’s the living definition of determined.
She Got Way More Than A Craigslist Romp
The vastness of the Internet has certainly brought the world closer together, both in spirit and physically. Dating sites have been the hotbed for frisky folk to meet up over their shared interest of banging, so it’s actually not a surprise to learn of a Craigslist rendezvous that ended in a pregnancy. Nor is it a surprise to learn of a strange man lying about his reproductive abilities. Tsk, tsk, woman. This is totally on YOU for taking a man you just met for his word. If you’re gonna get it on with a dude from Craigslist, you better wrap it for protection from much more than pregnancy. Even if he legit WAS shooting blanks, there are other risks from raw-dogging it. While it’s unfortunate to learn that he’s married and refuses to adopt your spawn, you made this bed. It’s time to lay in it.
Girls Should Know Better Than To Not Check The Merch First
The tricky thing about one night stands is that you don’t know who you’re rastlin’ with between the sheets. You’ve developed no relationship with them and you have no idea what kind of personality this dude really has. So when he claims that he’s wrapped the goods, you gotta put your pride, embarrassment, or whatever it is that makes you trust this perfect stranger aside and take a quick peek down below. If he ain’t holding up his end of the bargain, it’s your right to deny going forward with the shenanigans until he ante’s up. If he refuses and gets mad, do you really want to be getting busy with this dirty, irresponsible guy who doesn’t respect women or their right to consent? Nah, didn’t think so. Let this be a lesson to all you ladies!
The Father That Got Away & Went Downhill
When women choose to take a path less traveled and decide to raise a child on their own, we have to give them credit. They’re choosing a difficult life and one in which they have to be entirely unselfish and where their responsibilities raise tenfold. And since they choose to nurture the life of another, many deadbeat fathers roam free to carry out whatever act they please with zero care or responsibility. Case in point: this father who abandoned his child for a life of drugs and loneliness. The epitome of being selfish, right? It’s moments like these that make all the years of struggle, giving, and teaching worth it, knowing that – even under tough circumstances – she is coming out on top in life, over this man who’s pining for his next hit.
She Enjoyed Much More Than The Tunes That Night
When this girl goes out for a night of fun, she doesn’t hold back! Between the freedom, music, and positive vibes of the evening, she let those good feels continue with a fellow concert-goer who has at least one thing in common with her – they’re both fans of the band! That was reason enough to get busy with a stranger, but she may have let the evening get the better of her since her judgment didn’t pan out with them behaving “safely”. As a result, she left that concert with much more than a fond memory of checking out her fave musician, live in person. She ended up with a tiny person with a man that she not only can’t get ahold of but even if she wanted to, her lack of knowing his name is the dead end to that fateful search.
When 5 Minutes Turns Into A Lifetime Of Bliss
Sometimes when young, frisky teens get together, their actions result in a little accident that nobody had planned for. And while many would view this life-long mistake as just that… a mistake, not all would go as far as to label the result of a one-night consequence as that. For this grandmother and others like her, some may view it as a miracle. Even though the addition to the family was unplanned and birthed out of wedlock, it didn’t stop this family from viewing this typically unfavorable act as a blessing. While everyone and the family pet can’t help but love the little bundle of joy, they might have to bind together to comfort the child once she learns the real reason she has an absent father.
The Unlikely Duo That Defied The Odds
This is just a modern-day fairytale, now isn’t it? There’s nothing quite like finding love in a hopeless place, amiright Rihanna? It’s seriously not every day that a fling turns into a happy ending, fit for a royal family, but these two beat the odds! See ladies, putting yourself out there doesn’t always end in a walk of shame, now does it? This duo and new set of parents are defying the odds by pulling off something that even couples who have been together for years couldn’t pull off successfully, and that’s co-parenting. So many couples find that their best chance at making it as a couple is to not have kids, and yet these unlikely two jumped head first into a family and had it result in unimaginable happiness. Maybe we should all start doing things backward, eh?
It Takes A Strong Man To Father Another Man’s Kid
If anyone else is thinking of the movie The Backup Plan starring J-Lo right now, you’re not alone. All that this real-life chick needs to do is end up having twins and it’s a stolen plot line! It’s extremely rare for a man to take in a woman to call his own while she’s bearing the child of someone else, but this Prince Charming is putting the baby’s genes aside and accepting this broken family for what it is and turning his cheek to the elephant in the room. What a dreamboat! Nowadays, families are created from the unlikeliest of circumstances, so a union like this is not entirely as rare as a unicorn. So many women are knocked up and tossed to the side like loose change, so the odds are high that even while toting around a seed, they’re bound to find someone to love.
