Man Goes On Amazing Date, Finds Out She Never Wanted To Go In The First Place Through TikTok

First dates can be exciting but also daunting. It can either be a somewhat terrible evening or the moment you meet your soul mate. This Redditor had the butterflies after coming back from his date until he came across a TikTok made by the girl he just met. 

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The two had known one another through mutual friends and had a good time whenever they were together.

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The two agreed to go on a date and OP had a lot of fun.

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With it being an overall good time, OP was excited about how this relationship could go.

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OP was feeling hopeful until he came across a post on TikTok. The algorithm was working a little too hard that day and decided it wanted some drama. 

OP saw his date in the video showing herself getting ready for a date that she 'really didn't want to go to."

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OP's hopes were dashed and he started questioning the entire situation. 

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He said that he didn't mind that she didn't want to go on the date but he wondered why she would put it on the internet. OP felt self-conscious about the situation. 

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He didn't know whether to bring it up or not and was hurt by what she had said in the video.

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He wondered whether speaking to her about it was the right thing to do.

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Commenters were being the best wingmen they could be and told him to get in the comments and ask her if she enjoyed the date.

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Some thought making the video wasn't right and that she should not have mentioned the date.

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Some on the other hand added that not wanting to go on the date before leaving wasn't as red of a flag as everyone said. This Redditor shared their own experience of the many factors that affect wanting to go on a date.

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Another added that she didn't want to go on a date once and ended up meeting her husband. 

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Others wanted OP to be petty and to bring it up to her. 

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Another had flashbacks of a recently viral oyster date.

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Some even pointed out that OP too was making a post about the date. 

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